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- November 22nd, 2023
Q
My dad currently lives in an adult family home. We spent down his retirement and savings to pay for the facility, and then he applied for Medicaid. The State of Washington denied him Medicaid benefits for being over the asset limit because he owns an old motorhome. The state is valuing the motorhome well over what it could possibly be sold for. He still has his own home, which will be placed on the market to sell later this month. He is now unable to pay for the care at the facility. Can I loan my dad the money to pay for his care and have him reimburse me when his house sells? Would paying me back be considered "a gift”? I would have to use my emergency credit card (which currently has a zero balance) to make the payment for his care.
A
Yes, you can advance the funds and be reimbursed -- as long as you provide proof to the state that this is a loan. Your father needs to sign a promissory note, promising to repay you just like if he were borrowing the money from the bank. But if the home that is going to be sold is the motorhome, check with the Washington State Medicaid agency before loaning him the money. The agency may be willing to not count the asset while it is on the market. Get more information about Medicaid's asset transfer rules.